Instead, I can offer advice on navigating complex feelings like love for someone already committed:
Acknowledge Your Feelings: It’s okay to feel attraction, but recognize that these feelings don’t grant you the right to act on them in a way that harms others.
Consider the Ethics: Imagine the pain you would cause her, her husband, and potentially children or other family members. Is this a path you truly want to take?
Respect Her Commitment: A marriage is a significant promise. Disrupting it without her explicit, uncoerced, and independent decision to leave is a violation of trust and respect.
Focus on Yourself: Channel your energy into your own growth, hobbies, and meeting new people who are available and with whom you can build a healthy, consensual relationship.
Seek Support: Talk to a trusted friend, therapist, or counselor. They can provide a safe space to process your emotions and help you find constructive ways to move forward.
True connection is built on mutual respect, honesty, and consent, not manipulation.